Winds of change
Most of us do not enjoy dealing with uncertainty. It's stressful. It is exhausting. Believe me, it affects our health in unthoughtful ways.
For some reason, however, some divine plan, our life is usually a constant change, with all the uncertainty that entails.
We often believe that we change to know the result of that change, as when we say we will behave in such and such a way, when in reality everything is so complex that we seldom hit.
My life in recent weeks has become precisely a constant change. My daughter was born 3 weeks ago, in the middle of a total uncertainty about how we would handle the childbirth issue with our son, since we have no family nearby. We were lucky that our daughter decided to wait until 10 hours after the arrival of my parents. Probability of 3% ...
After that, obviously, we started with a lifestyle in which nothing is taken for granted, and nothing is simple, and to make everything more exciting, I decided to add more flavour to my life by embarking on a joint decision to cut off a toxic relationship.
The craziest thing, too, when you cut off relationships with sociopaths and liars, is that for some reason you expect them to behave logically and correctly, and we get mad or sad when they behave as we all knew they were going to behave. One would say: you are not going to shoot yourself in the foot, he is not so sick, and yet he does, as we knew he would and luckily we were prepared for that. But for some reason we are still surprised. It's like Shrodinger's cat: he'll be a sociopath and a normal person at the same time until we lift the lid of the box ...
Thus my life goes between personal and labor uncertainties. Happy moments and stressful moments. Meanwhile, I feel the breeze of Manitoba in my face that at times turns into winds of change, and that is capable of sweeping everything in its path, but that also takes out the clouds and leaves us a day of bright sun.
Never forget that those changes, which generally produce crises, if we are smart enough and have learned from our mistakes, will soon turn into opportunities. Anyone who has learned to rise from his ashes without or with little help, can do it again as many times as necessary.
For some reason, however, some divine plan, our life is usually a constant change, with all the uncertainty that entails.
We often believe that we change to know the result of that change, as when we say we will behave in such and such a way, when in reality everything is so complex that we seldom hit.
My life in recent weeks has become precisely a constant change. My daughter was born 3 weeks ago, in the middle of a total uncertainty about how we would handle the childbirth issue with our son, since we have no family nearby. We were lucky that our daughter decided to wait until 10 hours after the arrival of my parents. Probability of 3% ...
After that, obviously, we started with a lifestyle in which nothing is taken for granted, and nothing is simple, and to make everything more exciting, I decided to add more flavour to my life by embarking on a joint decision to cut off a toxic relationship.
The craziest thing, too, when you cut off relationships with sociopaths and liars, is that for some reason you expect them to behave logically and correctly, and we get mad or sad when they behave as we all knew they were going to behave. One would say: you are not going to shoot yourself in the foot, he is not so sick, and yet he does, as we knew he would and luckily we were prepared for that. But for some reason we are still surprised. It's like Shrodinger's cat: he'll be a sociopath and a normal person at the same time until we lift the lid of the box ...
Thus my life goes between personal and labor uncertainties. Happy moments and stressful moments. Meanwhile, I feel the breeze of Manitoba in my face that at times turns into winds of change, and that is capable of sweeping everything in its path, but that also takes out the clouds and leaves us a day of bright sun.
Never forget that those changes, which generally produce crises, if we are smart enough and have learned from our mistakes, will soon turn into opportunities. Anyone who has learned to rise from his ashes without or with little help, can do it again as many times as necessary.
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